Many people consider selfishness to be a despicable characteristic, but is it really? With the right type of mentality, selfishness can actually make you a much happier person and the world a much better place!

What is Selfishness?

Selfishness is defined by the dictionary as a focus on one’s own pleasure or well-being without regard for others. Although this definition certainly carries a negative connotation, society has generalized the concept of selfishness by applying it to anyone seeking personal gain, even if it benefits others. This is a shortsighted point of view that is also socialist in nature.

A Fair Trade

Nearly everything we do in life is associated with a cost and a benefit where the benefit is the justification for the cost. Although this applies to anything in life, exchanging money for goods or services is the most obvious example. Adding need into this equation of cost and benefit creates a philosophical dilemma.

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