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		<title>By: Barb McMahon</title>
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		<dc:creator>Barb McMahon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 27 Aug 2009 18:27:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;Life provides a nearly infinite amount of opportunity to enjoy fulfilling experiences, but only a limited amount of time to do it.&quot;

That was my favourite line in this really good post.  Up till now I&#039;ve been telling myself that I&#039;m just too lazy to be offended. ;)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;Life provides a nearly infinite amount of opportunity to enjoy fulfilling experiences, but only a limited amount of time to do it.&#8221;</p>
<p>That was my favourite line in this really good post.  Up till now I&#8217;ve been telling myself that I&#8217;m just too lazy to be offended. <img src='http://naturalbias.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Vin</title>
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		<dc:creator>Vin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 02 Aug 2009 00:21:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks for your comments!

Stephen - That was a great article and is part of what convinced me to write this one (in addition to the little incident on the bus, of course).

&#198;gil - Life can certainly be fragile and it sounds like you&#039;ve made some great strides in overcoming your susceptibility to it. Thank you for your compliment about my design! I have a technical background and am proud to say that I designed it myself. :) I like to keep things simple, including my websites! 

Grampa Ken - Yes, people who engage in offensive behavior are likely to do so as a result of excessive stress. I&#039;m pretty sure that we&#039;ve all been on this side of the fence, and in line with those excellent quotes, I&#039;d much rather weather an abrasive attack than be unhappy enough to carry one out. However, the importance of overcoming unpleasant situations still applies to both parties.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for your comments!</p>
<p>Stephen &#8211; That was a great article and is part of what convinced me to write this one (in addition to the little incident on the bus, of course).</p>
<p>&AElig;gil &#8211; Life can certainly be fragile and it sounds like you&#8217;ve made some great strides in overcoming your susceptibility to it. Thank you for your compliment about my design! I have a technical background and am proud to say that I designed it myself. <img src='http://naturalbias.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  I like to keep things simple, including my websites! </p>
<p>Grampa Ken &#8211; Yes, people who engage in offensive behavior are likely to do so as a result of excessive stress. I&#8217;m pretty sure that we&#8217;ve all been on this side of the fence, and in line with those excellent quotes, I&#8217;d much rather weather an abrasive attack than be unhappy enough to carry one out. However, the importance of overcoming unpleasant situations still applies to both parties.</p>
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		<title>By: Grampa Ken: Social Fix</title>
		<link>http://naturalbias.com/how-easily-can-i-offend-you/#comment-3415</link>
		<dc:creator>Grampa Ken: Social Fix</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Aug 2009 13:59:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I agree with what you are saying Vin, and some wise old guys do too. Often a perpetrator is emotionally and extremely stressed and perhaps feeling very much worse than we are at the moment. Imagine that the positions are switched for a different perspective on the situation.

&quot;It&#039;s hard to have one&#039;s watch stolen, but one reflects that the thief of the watch became a thief from causes of heredity and environment which are as interesting as they are scientifically comprehensible; and one buys another watch, if not with joy, at any rate with a philosophy that makes bitterness impossible.&quot; - Arnold Bennett

&quot;Consider how much more you often suffer from your anger and grief, than from those very things for which you are angry and grieved.&quot; - Marcus Antonius</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I agree with what you are saying Vin, and some wise old guys do too. Often a perpetrator is emotionally and extremely stressed and perhaps feeling very much worse than we are at the moment. Imagine that the positions are switched for a different perspective on the situation.</p>
<p>&#8220;It&#8217;s hard to have one&#8217;s watch stolen, but one reflects that the thief of the watch became a thief from causes of heredity and environment which are as interesting as they are scientifically comprehensible; and one buys another watch, if not with joy, at any rate with a philosophy that makes bitterness impossible.&#8221; &#8211; Arnold Bennett</p>
<p>&#8220;Consider how much more you often suffer from your anger and grief, than from those very things for which you are angry and grieved.&#8221; &#8211; Marcus Antonius</p>
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		<title>By: ægil</title>
		<link>http://naturalbias.com/how-easily-can-i-offend-you/#comment-3405</link>
		<dc:creator>ægil</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Aug 2009 02:56:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yes, Vin very close match to the rat race trap post about it! Before reading stephen&#039;s article (read July 2009), I was a person that gets easily offended.

I realized that our perspective is very flexible, it is like play-dough, it can be anything you want, but not unnecessary things like being offended. Instead we better focus on the rational.

How about life is too *fragile* to be offended, I believe there is a link to being too offended and committing suicide. If you&#039;ve not done already, please research. It gives me jitters when I hear someone committing suicide or my occassional suicidal thoughts. I believe I am already immune to those thoughts.

Human life is indeed very fragile. Not only we need to be careful about our body (health), but also with with our emotional health, a subset of full body health.

ps. By the way, I&#039;m currently spicing up the layout of the diet solution program with Isabel&#039;s permission. (I do layout design as one of my free time activities), so it is at the bottom of my priority list. 

So far I like the layout of naturalbias.com, the green background especially, and its simplicity, compared to naturalnews.com (very distracting).

But of course things can always be improved, and I will tell you in the future. 

My philisophy:
Good layout design is about being simple, straight to the point, minimal, being artistic when appropriate (it should enhance the understanding of the point), and being organized.
So I believe no one should undervalue the importance of layout design for complicated things, it&#039;s simpler than you think. 
(Disclaimer: forgive my ego, I believe I do not have much experience yet, but I&#039;m passionate)

I believe through the use of graphic design, big entities have been very successful.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yes, Vin very close match to the rat race trap post about it! Before reading stephen&#8217;s article (read July 2009), I was a person that gets easily offended.</p>
<p>I realized that our perspective is very flexible, it is like play-dough, it can be anything you want, but not unnecessary things like being offended. Instead we better focus on the rational.</p>
<p>How about life is too *fragile* to be offended, I believe there is a link to being too offended and committing suicide. If you&#8217;ve not done already, please research. It gives me jitters when I hear someone committing suicide or my occassional suicidal thoughts. I believe I am already immune to those thoughts.</p>
<p>Human life is indeed very fragile. Not only we need to be careful about our body (health), but also with with our emotional health, a subset of full body health.</p>
<p>ps. By the way, I&#8217;m currently spicing up the layout of the diet solution program with Isabel&#8217;s permission. (I do layout design as one of my free time activities), so it is at the bottom of my priority list. </p>
<p>So far I like the layout of naturalbias.com, the green background especially, and its simplicity, compared to naturalnews.com (very distracting).</p>
<p>But of course things can always be improved, and I will tell you in the future. </p>
<p>My philisophy:<br />
Good layout design is about being simple, straight to the point, minimal, being artistic when appropriate (it should enhance the understanding of the point), and being organized.<br />
So I believe no one should undervalue the importance of layout design for complicated things, it&#8217;s simpler than you think.<br />
(Disclaimer: forgive my ego, I believe I do not have much experience yet, but I&#8217;m passionate)</p>
<p>I believe through the use of graphic design, big entities have been very successful.</p>
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		<title>By: Stephen - Rat Race Trap</title>
		<link>http://naturalbias.com/how-easily-can-i-offend-you/#comment-3400</link>
		<dc:creator>Stephen - Rat Race Trap</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 31 Jul 2009 22:14:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Vin, I couldn&#039;t agree with you more.  I wrote an article on this very topic recently.  If you are offended too much, the problem lies inside you.  You can&#039;t control other people and you shouldn&#039;t want to anyway so get over it and get on with YOUR life.  Thanks buddy! :-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Vin, I couldn&#8217;t agree with you more.  I wrote an article on this very topic recently.  If you are offended too much, the problem lies inside you.  You can&#8217;t control other people and you shouldn&#8217;t want to anyway so get over it and get on with YOUR life.  Thanks buddy! <img src='http://naturalbias.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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